Naturism is Destroying My Marriage By Nudie Lee:
This week's question comes to us from our sister website, Ask A Nudist.
Q.
I've been a social naturist for several years, but I Have been concealing it from my wife and kids. To date I've been able to spend several weekends (this year a whole week!) every summer at unclothed beaches or clubs by lying to my wife.
I UNDERSTAND my wife wouldn't join me in nudism for spiritual motives (trust me on this). https://s3.amazonaws.com/naturist-last/young-nudist-pictures.html don't desire to choose between continuing the lies or giving up naturism so I'm thinking about divorce. Our union has many other difficulties anyhow and there's very little love there.
I feel guilty about putting the kids through this of course but I don't feel able to refuse or hide such an important part of myself as nudism for years to come.
A.
The first error made in this relationship was lying about your authentic self. If naturism was an important part of your life, it should have already been shared with your partner.
Even if your wife isn't a nudist and would not have joined you in social nudity for her personal religious motives (accurate to her self), she might have come to recognize and accept your nudist ways.
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It's also very important to separate your desire of nudism with the other issues in your relationship. Don't forget that by omitting this enormous part of your life, you did not give your wife the opportunity to accept you as a naturist, or not. Assuming always leads down the wrong path.
I genuinely hope you will have the ability to discover a means to happiness. When children watch happy parents, as a unit or as two independent individuals, they wind up as more stable human beings.
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Part time writer, part-time barista, and highly opinionated, Nudie Lee bursts onto the scene! Hammered in a far-off land of arctic temperatures, big vicious creatures, and universal health care, she's here to help with all of your dating and relationship questions.